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Have You Been Coping With Toddler Hitting?

Posted in Tips on January 31st, 2012 by – Be the first to comment Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

 

I know you were not eager for the terrible twos. Almost all kids need to go through this phase because they learn so much as a result. Toddler hitting and much of the conduct we cope with during this time period tend to be caused by your son or daughter being unable to communicate new emotions. Knowing this can help you learn to cope with toddler misbehavior.

It would be rare for toddler hitting to come from actual aggression. Getting your attention is very important at this age and they find out that hitting gets them attention. Even though the conduct may seem aggressive, your child is not trying to be mean. A toddler doesn’t realize that things they do has an effect on how other people feel. And if they are feeling out of control or tense, they will hit others in order to express themselves.

You are able to show them how you keep your emotions under control and they need someone to show that to them.

Small children often hit to get attention. To prevent providing them with the sort of attention they may be trying to find, your reaction should be short and to the point. Simply inform the child that, “we do not hit one another.” The toddler will often stop hitting other people once you make a statement like this to them a few times. Nevertheless, with a few children the actions will continue. If that’s the case, you may have to apply other strategies to prevent them from hitting.

When your child is angry or annoyed they may try to hit other people to communicate their feelings. It is very important that you present a relaxed response to their behavior that doesn’t include raising your voice or smacking your child.

It is important that you set the example for the children. If you have discovered that simply telling them that, “we don’t hit,” isn’t adequate to teach them the lesson you can begin to instruct them on alternative outlets for their emotions. Offer them suitable words to use as appropriate kinds of self expression. I’m upset. I’m tired. I’d like my toy back. Not only will this strengthen their capability to express themselves, it will start supplying you with verbal hints as to what is causing the outbursts and allow you to concentrate on teaching them how to handle that specific range of feelings.

For a lot of mothers and fathers, getting an understanding of why toddlers hit will probably be sufficient to redirect their behavior into more positive types of expression. Regrettably this may not get toddler hitting in check for all fathers and mothers. When this type of behavior is allowed to continue your child might wind up stuck in a pattern that is challenging to alter the longer it continues. If you discover that you simply can’t get a toddler to stop hitting, it may be time to look for more in-depth assistance.

 

Are You Currently Struggling With Toddler Biting?

Posted in Tips on January 30th, 2012 by – Be the first to comment Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

 

Biting is a typical toddler behavior and of course mothers and fathers don’t like it. Any time a toddler fails to know how to handle their feelings, they use biting to express them. When you know that they are not wanting to act up, you’re able to learn about new and healthy ways that can help them show his or even her feelings and communicate with many people. These are a few of the emotions which could initiate toddler biting:

 

Anger
Frustration
Fear
Needing attention

 

Biting can be a way they will express these kinds of emotions. As soon as a toddler bites somebody else, they will discover that people respond strongly to it and the biting turns into a simple way to find attention. In order to train your toddler to quit biting, you need to teach them how to deal with his or her feelings in a more constructive manner.

Is teething a specific thing that can trigger a toddler to bite? Children start teething at about 4 to 6 months old. They begin biting into things that will help soothe their uncomfortably inflamed gums. They can not actually distinguish between bedding, toys, and even people if they are wanting to relieve his or her painful gums. They are not aware that biting results in pain and is injuring someone. Teething is something else that causes babies to bite.

This may appear totally obvious, but to avoid toddler biting, get started by trying to keep a close eye on babies. A grownup always has to be in that the midst of a group of toddlers and not trying to keep themselves apart. Keep alert to tense feelings and stop fights before biting takes place. Alter their path by helping them opt for another thing to do to help the biter release his or her anxiety in a more rewarding manner.

Keep yourself from making a joke about biting and don’t laugh around it. That can only support toddler biting. Do not chuckle or giggle when they bite, even if it doesn’t hurt. You can confuse the child if you begin making a game of nibbling on his or her toes or even fingertips in a playful way.

A toddler and their parents can get a bad reputation when the toddler continues to bite other young children, even though toddler biting is a normal behavior. Because of the intimate nature of biting it really is quite an emotionally charged and also personal experience for kids and his or her moms and dads. You will find some toddlers who only bite a couple of times then stop. Some toddlers continue biting for many months. If you cannot discover a way to keep your child from biting other people you may have to try to look for more comprehensive help.

 

Nlp – Are You Missing Out On Life?

Posted in Tips on January 23rd, 2012 by – Be the first to comment Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Learning Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP is the best possible investment one can make in oneself. Just think of that time now, the time when you were in your peak state. Confident, sure of yourself, sometimes called “In the zone.”

As you vividly remember the event drop into your body. Feel the feelings you felt. Hear the sounds you heard. And really see the images you saw. That’s empowering, isn’t it.

Imagine what it would be like to always have the ability to instantly tap into your peak performance state. Even better, imagine what it would be like to tap into that state at will and have the same unconscious beliefs of those people who have the achieved the most in your chosen field. This is one of the benefits of NLP.

Perhaps you’re like I used to be. Always trying to move forward in life with something holding you back. Some wall or ceiling that you keep smashing into unable to get to the next level. You’re not alone.

Almost everyone does this to themselves. NLP allows you to release these inner limitations. Allows you the freedom to experience life on your own terms. A life of confidence and happiness. A life without that anxiety, frustration and sheer unhappiness that stems from not hitting your goals. Because of NLP I am able to live the life I want. This is another benefit.

NLP is a transformative process which gives you control of your conscious and unconscious mind.

On top of this, NLP gives you the skills you need to be a fantastic communicator. Teaching you how to influence those around you in every situation from large groups to one on one with your spouse.

My favorite benefit of NLP is working with other people to help them remove the limiting beliefs standing in their way. I love coaching people to success. As an NLP Practitioner you will have the tools to help others and make a fantastic living doing just that.

3 Qualities Your Toddler Games Should Have

Posted in Tips on January 19th, 2012 by – Be the first to comment Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Learning through play for younger children is the best way to educate them. Toddler games can go a long way to achieve this. The beauty of teaching younger children is that the teacher is able to combine both fun and education. Children have the ability to be bored easily, however; if these three qualities are considered when purchasing or making toddler games, the boredom maybe avoided.

Big is always better when it comes to children

If you’ve ever gone through a child’s book (which we’re sure you have) you’ll notice that the words and pictures are always big and bold. This is because a child, who isn’t used to scanning through a lot of information, will be able to focus on a specific part of the book or picture. Make sure that when you’re purchasing toddler books that the writing and the pictures are big enough.

If you’re buying puzzles, make sure that the pieces are big enough for the target age of your child. It’s all relative. The older your child becomes the smaller the pieces can get.

Colours are the perfect motivational tool

Colours is an important part of our lives and therefore it is extremely important in our child’s life. Colours have the ability to take something boring and make it look fun and interesting. When purchasing or making toddler games, make sure that they’re extremely colourful. If you’re making your own toddler games and you’re printing them out on black and white paper, colour them in with your kids, and then use them.

This is the perfect compromise. Later on your child will be able to feel proud about the work they have actually accomplished.

Pictures are truly worth one thousand words

The saying “Pictures are worth a thousand words” doesn’t come from thin air. There is a reason that pictures have such a powerful play on our feelings, emotions and studying techniques. As humans we can understand better with visual stimulation. For this reason it’s critical to find toddler games that have pictures. Imagine memory card games with just words. It wouldn’t be fun for your child as they would struggle to put it all together. Pictures make it easier and fun for your child to learn.

These three qualities will help your toddler games become interesting and fun for your child’s learning experience.

 

Stop Biting Nails: Strategies If You Bite Your Nails As A Habit

Posted in Tips on January 10th, 2012 by – Be the first to comment Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

It’s a fact that habits are quite difficult to break. An example of a habit that is hard to get rid of is Onychophagia, in layman’s terms fingernail biting. Kids are not the only ones who should be taught to stop biting nails, as there are also some adults who can’t stop chewing nails. If you bite your nails even as an adult, then, you’ll surely want to find an effective nail biting treatment.

What bad things result from Onychophagia?

When someone engages in fingernail biting frequently, he or she tends to experience pain, especially if the nails become too short because of the biting. Sometimes, a nail biter also experiences bleeding from the fingers. Biting fingernails can also bring about an infection. Lastly, a fingernail biter who won’t stop this bad habit can also become self conscious especially when his/her chewed on fingernails are noticed by other people.

Is there really a connection between anxiety and Onychophagia?

Research studies show that people who won’t stop biting nails are usually suffering from anxiety. Thus, one way to stop chewing nails is to first cure anxiety. The following are some ways to treat anxiety, which, when successful, can help you if you bite your nails specifically because you’re anxious:

1.Eating healthy and getting enough sleep will help lessen your feelings of anxiety.

2.Reducing your intake of caffeinated drinks as well as sugar rich foods also helps calm you down.

3.Taking calcium supplements or drinking/eating foods that have large amounts of calcium can also treat anxiety and also make your nails stronger.

What other tips and tricks help people stop biting nails?

One nail biting treatment that works is for you to apply special nail polish on to your fingernails. That kind of polish has a really bitter taste, thus, when you try to bite your nails, you’ll surely refrain from repeating that action because of the bitterness.

Another trick to stop chewing nails is to wear false fingernails for a long period of time. You see, when you bite on those fake nails, you’ll surely find it really hard and even feel pain on your teeth because those nails are made of really tough plastic. Thus, you’ll choose not to bite on the nails, and once you get used to that, you can eliminate your bad nail-biting habit.

Chewing on a piece of gum or fruit can also be considered as a good nail biting treatment. In this way, you can still chew when you feel the urge, but, you won’t have to chew on your finger nails, eventually letting you get rid of Onychophagia.

It is not impossible for you to stop biting nails for as long as you know some techniques on how to stop chewing nails. When you bite your nails often, you’re sure to become embarrassed eventually, suffer from pain and infection, experience bleeding, and many more, which is why it is of the utmost importance for you to start treating your Onychophagia immediately.